FAQs
How should I prepare?
It is best to come to sessions with a list of issues that you would like to discuss. If there has been a history including court orders, you will need to bring a copy of these. Click here to learn more.
What if the other parent refuses to attend?
We will do our best to contact the other parent. If we can’t reach them or they refuse to attend, we will be able to issue you with the certificate you need to take the matter to court.
Can I go straight to court?
Outside of specific situations, you will need to attempt Family Dispute Resolution before you are able to attend court for parenting issues.
What happens if we can’t agree?
This is a process of negotiation, but sometimes, an issue comes up where an agreement can’t be found. In times like these, it may be appropriate for the matter to go beyond Family Dispute Resolution to court.
What if I’m afraid of the other parent?
The purpose of individual intake sessions is to screen for safety and suitability for the process. If you feel unsafe, tell the practitioner immediately. You can take breaks and end any session at any time.
What happens if we make an agreement?
When agreements are made, you may choose to formalise them into a parenting plan. Your practitioner can draw this up and send it to you after a session. If it is necessary, you may like to take the parenting plan to your lawyers and have them converted into consent orders.
Do I need to see a lawyer?
You don’t need to see a lawyer, but there may be some issues where you would like legal advice. Our practitioners may give you some procedural information, but cannot offer any legal advice.
How long will it take?
We do not allow for a back log of clients: we do not have a waiting list. We will make arrangements so that we can work with you as quickly as both parents are available.
What if I can’t get child care for that time?
Conflict and children don’t mix. We won’t be able to conduct any intake sessions with children over 12 months present, and we cannot conduct joint sessions with any children present.
Can we come back to talk about further issues?
Yes. However, if there has been more than six months since we saw you, we will need to have another intake session to discuss any changes that have come up in that time.
Will I have to talk directly to my ex partner?
You will not be obliged to speak with the other person if you don’t feel comfortable doing so. There are a number of ways mediation can be structured so that you can speak freely without pressure from anyone else.
Is this process legally binding?
Any agreements you make can be made legally binding. When you make agreements, our practitioner will draw them up into a parenting plan. You can take this parenting plan to your lawyers, and they can be made into consent orders, which are legally binding.